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Pearly was the most loving person I knew. She always had a smile on her face, no matter what the situation was. She left behind 2 sons aged 16 and 19 whom she loved dearly. She was 42 years old. On S…

Pearly was the most loving person I knew. She always had a smile on her face, no matter what the situation was. She left behind 2 sons aged 16 and 19 whom she loved dearly. She was 42 years old.

On September 26 2013 Pearly, my husband and I including my 2 kids went to Durban for a long weekend. Her husband and my brother live in Durban, so we went to visit. Pearly and I were sitting in the front, I drove the first half and she drove the second half, we were travelling from Nigel, JHB.

We chatted all the way to Durban, at one stage she told me she was experiencing pain in her bones for a few months now and it seemed to be getting worse. She said she went to the doctor and he did some tests and she is waiting for the results.

We arrived in Durban safely, we dropped her off at her husbands place and me and my family went to my brother`s place.

The next day she sent me a sms and told me she was admitted to the hospital in Durban as her pain became very severe, she also told me that her doctor called her and got back her test results. This was the worst day of my life, she told me she had cancer, in her bones, I broke down, I cried, but she told me not to cry because she will beat this, she told me she was going to start her chemotherapy and go into remission.

I believed her, if only I knew...........

On 16 February 2014 pearly passed away, it was such a huge shock because I still spoke to her over the phone the previous day.

According to her husband she had trouble breathing, he rushed her to the hospital and she later died.

I still cant come to terms with her death.

I still can`t believe she is gone.

I miss her still so much

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Comment by Ozille on May 21, 2014 at 12:42

Hi Mika

She was my cousin, not my daughter.

Thank you so much for the reply

Comment by Mika on May 21, 2014 at 12:32

I am so very sorry for the loss of you daughter. I have no words , all I can say is pray that God is there with you during this time that you are going through. live each day minute by minute . You will get days that you will fell you cant even get out of bed . Live through that moment and just pray. You are in my thoughts and prayers . I lost my son in 2011 and I am still grieving for him.

I have days that I break down and cry .... this pain is the worst for us as parents.

God Bless dear friend . You are not alone .

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