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My daughter Chane passed away on 1year and 2weeks on 12 March 2007. We moved into an new house and only lived there for 2months, we got an shield for the swimming pool, but as we live in an small town we still needed to get someone from the outside to fitt it over the swimming pool! I needed to get someone to look after my child as the lady that looked after her has started to work at the Chemist. The Nanny that looked after my child left all the doors open and left her alone as she went to the other Nanny that was cleaning the house, they started to chat and forgot to look after my child. Chane got outside and drowned in our swimming pool. The Nanny went back looking for her and and found her floating in the swimming pool. She took her out and put her in her cot and ran away without trying to save her live, not even try to phone us as we gave her an phone just with our numbers on. My husband got home and the Nanny that cleaned the house told my Husband what the Nanny did who looked after my child. My husband ran in the house took her out the cot and rush to the nearest dokter, but it was already to late! I was at work as my husband ran in took me at the arm and said you need to come. I knew something was wrong and my husband said our daugter is Dead!  She was laying on the dokter's table! The dokter gave me an injection to calm me down. How do you say goodbuy to the person you love the most. The Nanny  was found quilty for my daughters death and I know God wants Me to forgive her, but how do you forgive someone that was responsible for your child's death.

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At 1:02 on October 12, 2012, Patsy Roux said…

I am so sorry to read about beautiful Chane passing on.....its so hard to loose a child....this is definately the worst club in the world ! So sad that we are all a part of it.....but, good to have parents to chat to . I find if I light a candle at the end of the day where we have photos of our daughter in the family room ...and we leave it on till we go to bed it helps a bit...take care regards Patsy

At 10:35 on May 15, 2012, Eurika Demos said…

Hi Sharleen,

Oh that is sooooo bad. I'm so sorry for your loss. Yip that is difficult........ how do you forgive someone that is responsible for your child's death? The same with me..... how do I forgive the drunk driver that caused our accident and my little girl died. We are still busy with the court case against him and every time he play's for time and every time we have to go through everything. The police even stapled a photo of my little girl lying dead at the scene to the file docket. Every time we have to read our statement we have to look at that photo! Can you believe it! And when we ask them to remove it they say NO! it is part of the procedure. Anyway I have to forgive him, because if I can’t forgive him how do I expect God to forgive me for my sins. I am so glad we are not on earth forever and one day we will be released from this pain and heartache! AND I will see her again! Thinking of you! Be strong.


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