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Jan 31
Danya Herman commented on Felicity Schoombee's blog post Time
"My darling. My heart is sore for you. What did this doctor do? I lost my daughter in utero and I have a friend who was due at the same time with a daughter. I cant see this child. It kills me. Even though I eventually got blessed with another…"
Jan 31
Danya Herman posted a blog post

Post Trauma - there is a silver lining

Hi AllI haven't posted in years as life has become a whirlwind of change and thankfully for the better. Following my last entry, that 'nice guy' has become my 3rd (and final ha ha) husband. I was reluctant to remarry, and even my mom on her deathbed said just be happy who cares anymore. That in itself was a miracle as she was staunchly conservative and wanted me to be a traditional 'married with children' woman. That sadly (and blessedly) eluded me in the past.Both my previous marriages were…See More
Jan 31
leah newstead left a comment for Danya Herman
"I was devastated to read your blog about the loss of your precious baby!  I have just lost my darling precious son at the age of 43, a father of 4 young children - 2 boys aged 12 and 9, a little princess of 7, and a baby boy of only 2…"
Mar 4, 2014
leah newstead left a comment for Danya Herman
"I was devastated to read your blog about the loss of your precious baby!  I have just lost my darling precious son at the age of 43, a father of 4 young children - 2 boys aged 12 and 9, a little princess of 7, and a baby boy of only 2…"
Mar 4, 2014
Felicity Schoombee replied to Danya Herman's discussion Baby loss in the group we lost a baby or toddles
"I always say dont judge until you have been through it yourself. Life only gives us what we can handle.I am glad you have met someone who understands and I am sure when you are ready you will have your bundle of joy. Wishing you an amazing journey…"
Sep 20, 2012
Danya Herman replied to Danya Herman's discussion Baby loss in the group we lost a baby or toddles
"Thats just awful. My ex also never cared much as i have said. His sister didnt even bother visiting me or even calling. She would bitch and moan how she doesnt enjoy being a mother and its a drag.....i kept telling her to be thankful for her…"
Sep 20, 2012
Felicity Schoombee replied to Danya Herman's discussion Baby loss in the group we lost a baby or toddles
"Danya when did you loose your baby? I lost my daughter 12 years ago she was 2 and a half years old also very unexpected.I know it is very different to your circumstances and that is what makes us moms so unique. Every story is different and although…"
Sep 19, 2012
Danya Herman replied to Danya Herman's discussion Baby loss in the group we lost a baby or toddles
"Heart wrenching. Its such a trauma, and it is something that will  be burnt in to our minds forever. As much as you feel the pain, feel the joy in the living child you have. He cannot replace her, but he himself deserves as much love. I long…"
Sep 19, 2012
Mequette Fourie replied to Danya Herman's discussion Baby loss in the group we lost a baby or toddles
"I heard the Monday morning that I had to have her removed,the sooner the better,all those decisions were made for me,I zoned out completely,I wanted to keep her inside me for just a day or two until it sank in,but was told that that's not an…"
Sep 14, 2012
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Sep 14, 2012
Danya Herman replied to Danya Herman's discussion Baby loss in the group we lost a baby or toddles
"I am so sorry. It hits really hard when they baby was perfectly healthy and all of a sudden, it isnt alive anymore. i felt responsibile (i was the one who had the deformity and she suffered due to that). I also never heard her laugh, held her, smelt…"
Sep 14, 2012
Mequette Fourie replied to Danya Herman's discussion Baby loss in the group we lost a baby or toddles
"I completely understand how you feel....I lost my little girl at about 8months into my pregnancy,was involved in a car accident,a woman skipped a red light and ended up t-boning my car. Long story short,baby seemed fine,but found out the next day…"
Sep 14, 2012
nqandeka pityi commented on Danya Herman's blog post Due Date coming up
"I am so happy for you girlfriend.... i know the humiliation i felt evry time i wept on the streets and in front of my subordinates. i am happy for any woman bouncing back from public humiliation. You are a strong woman!!!!!"
Jul 27, 2012
nqandeka pityi commented on Danya Herman's blog post Due date didnt give me a baby but bore me a new life
"Danya I am so happy for all the good that is happening in your life!!!! I also salute you for the will and courage to continue living in the present-i still struggle to live and there are days i believe it would be easier for me to die. Keep well"
Jul 27, 2012
Danya Herman posted a blog post

Due date didnt give me a baby but bore me a new life

SO here I am, a week after Nasyas birth/due date and devastated but exhilarated at same time. I have met a nice guy (still new), landed a fab job (thanks to my angel baby and blessings from Hashem) and am trying to sift through my life path. Why did I marry my exes…..one I am convinced isn’t hetro and one I am very sure is a sociopath. I was looking for love, love I had been deprived of and tried to find externally in all the wrong people. Is this the ultimate reason for Nasya passing, to kick…See More
Jul 27, 2012

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Post Trauma - there is a silver lining

Posted on January 31, 2017 at 10:15 0 Comments

Hi All

I haven't posted in years as life has become a whirlwind of change and thankfully for the better. 

Following my last entry, that 'nice guy' has become my 3rd (and final ha ha) husband. I was reluctant to remarry, and even my mom on her deathbed said just be happy who cares anymore. That in itself was a miracle as she was staunchly conservative and wanted me to be a traditional 'married with children' woman. That sadly (and blessedly) eluded me in the past.

Both my…

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Due date didnt give me a baby but bore me a new life

Posted on July 27, 2012 at 14:22 1 Comment

SO here I am, a week after Nasyas birth/due date and devastated but exhilarated at same time. I have met a nice guy (still new), landed a fab job (thanks to my angel baby and blessings from Hashem) and am trying to sift through my life path. Why did I marry my exes…..one I am convinced isn’t hetro and one I am very sure is a sociopath. I was looking for love, love I had been deprived of and tried to find externally in all the wrong people. Is this the ultimate reason for Nasya passing, to kick… Continue

The lies dont become reality, they just made it more real.......

Posted on July 4, 2012 at 18:23 1 Comment

I am sitting here at the precipice of a whole new life wondering what the hell happened. After my ex-husband left me, not even a month after the baby died, I was in a total state of trauma. I begged G-d to bring him back. Why? Why would I beg him to bring back someone who was so cruel and unkind and clearly didn’t even care? I was lost. I was desperate to hold on to what I thought was a marriage, to have what I always wanted - a family. Looking back to before Nasya died, the signs were…

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Due Date coming up

Posted on July 2, 2012 at 11:44 3 Comments

im still in shock, my due date hasnt even come up yet and i am already divorced. Divorce came through last week. Another cruel reminder of how i was left by my husband to fend for myself in all the grief and trauma i was experiencing. I still cant understand how he could marry me, promise before G-d and family to love me, support me and be with me, only to leave me 2 months later. its beyond the normal comprehension of sanity. Something i struggle with as much as why my baby died. I am…

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At 15:19 on March 4, 2014, leah newstead said…

I was devastated to read your blog about the loss of your precious baby!  I have just lost my darling precious son at the age of 43, a father of 4 young children - 2 boys aged 12 and 9, a little princess of 7, and a baby boy of only 2 1/2. He died from complications as a result of extremely stringent radiation treatment for Stage 3B lung cancer.  I always called him my Golden Boy, because he was everything that any mother could ever want - handsome, funny, witty, a brilliant lawyer.  We live in Israel, and he was given an award as an Outstanding Soldier.

At 15:19 on March 4, 2014, leah newstead said…

I was devastated to read your blog about the loss of your precious baby!  I have just lost my darling precious son at the age of 43, a father of 4 young children - 2 boys aged 12 and 9, a little princess of 7, and a baby boy of only 2 1/2. He died from complications as a result of extremely stringent radiation treatment for Stage 3B lung cancer.  I always called him my Golden Boy, because he was everything that any mother could ever want - handsome, funny, witty, a brilliant lawyer.  We live in Israel, and he was given an award as an Outstanding Soldier.

 
 
 

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