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Post Trauma - there is a silver lining

Posted on January 31, 2017 at 10:15 0 Comments

Hi All

I haven't posted in years as life has become a whirlwind of change and thankfully for the better. 

Following my last entry, that 'nice guy' has become my 3rd (and final ha ha) husband. I was reluctant to remarry, and even my mom on her deathbed said just be happy who cares anymore. That in itself was a miracle as she was staunchly conservative and wanted me to be a traditional 'married with children' woman. That sadly (and blessedly) eluded me in the past.

Both my…

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Due date didnt give me a baby but bore me a new life

Posted on July 27, 2012 at 14:22 1 Comment

SO here I am, a week after Nasyas birth/due date and devastated but exhilarated at same time. I have met a nice guy (still new), landed a fab job (thanks to my angel baby and blessings from Hashem) and am trying to sift through my life path. Why did I marry my exes…..one I am convinced isn’t hetro and one I am very sure is a sociopath. I was looking for love, love I had been deprived of and tried to find externally in all the wrong people. Is this the ultimate reason for Nasya passing, to kick… Continue

The lies dont become reality, they just made it more real.......

Posted on July 4, 2012 at 18:23 1 Comment

I am sitting here at the precipice of a whole new life wondering what the hell happened. After my ex-husband left me, not even a month after the baby died, I was in a total state of trauma. I begged G-d to bring him back. Why? Why would I beg him to bring back someone who was so cruel and unkind and clearly didn’t even care? I was lost. I was desperate to hold on to what I thought was a marriage, to have what I always wanted - a family. Looking back to before Nasya died, the signs were…

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Due Date coming up

Posted on July 2, 2012 at 11:44 3 Comments

im still in shock, my due date hasnt even come up yet and i am already divorced. Divorce came through last week. Another cruel reminder of how i was left by my husband to fend for myself in all the grief and trauma i was experiencing. I still cant understand how he could marry me, promise before G-d and family to love me, support me and be with me, only to leave me 2 months later. its beyond the normal comprehension of sanity. Something i struggle with as much as why my baby died. I am…

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At 15:19 on March 4, 2014, leah newstead said…

I was devastated to read your blog about the loss of your precious baby!  I have just lost my darling precious son at the age of 43, a father of 4 young children - 2 boys aged 12 and 9, a little princess of 7, and a baby boy of only 2 1/2. He died from complications as a result of extremely stringent radiation treatment for Stage 3B lung cancer.  I always called him my Golden Boy, because he was everything that any mother could ever want - handsome, funny, witty, a brilliant lawyer.  We live in Israel, and he was given an award as an Outstanding Soldier.

At 15:19 on March 4, 2014, leah newstead said…

I was devastated to read your blog about the loss of your precious baby!  I have just lost my darling precious son at the age of 43, a father of 4 young children - 2 boys aged 12 and 9, a little princess of 7, and a baby boy of only 2 1/2. He died from complications as a result of extremely stringent radiation treatment for Stage 3B lung cancer.  I always called him my Golden Boy, because he was everything that any mother could ever want - handsome, funny, witty, a brilliant lawyer.  We live in Israel, and he was given an award as an Outstanding Soldier.

 
 
 

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